I haven’t read that book yet Nick, but I just added it to my reading list. Thanks for the recommendation.
I had the same experience with wanting to have other strengths than the ones I have. Strengths envy I suppose. But I have to remind myself that these are strengths and they are all good!
God made me in a particular way so I need to use what I was given and not try to be someone else.
]]>Creating an acronym is a great way to remember your strengths, Alana. I may have to borrow that idea. (Except my acronym is LCBRC…hmmm, doesn’t exactly roll off the tongue).
Yes, the WOO strengths is a fabulous strength to have. I think the ability to adjust your behavior and language based on who you are speaking with shows great self-awareness. Those who are able to do that effectively and in a genuine way are often the most socially adept people we encounter.
I’m so glad you were able to reframe your natural strength in a positive way.
]]>When I first took the assessment, I was a little disappointed. There were other strengths I wanted to have. I put the results away like you and didn’t look at them for a while. When I brought them back out and began brainstorming the workshop content, I was able to appreciate them more and see how they fit and many of my frustrations did not fit with them.
]]>A cool experience for me was learning that something I once viewed as a weakness, was actually a strength. This is my “woo” strength. Someone close to me once said, “Alana, you change your behavior all the time. You are like a chameleon. You act differently depending on who you are around.” I took it as a negative. For years, I believed it was a bad thing for me to be different depending on the people I was surrounded by. Then I took the Strengthsfinder and viewed this in an entirely new light. My “woo” allows me to relate to individuals from a variety of backgrounds. This strength, combined with “Individualization” allows me to see the needs/personalities of those around me and adjust my behavior/language in a way where I can make them feel comfortable. If I did not have this ability to read people and then adjust, I would not have been able to relate to these groups of people.
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